Oyakhilome breaks silence, says allegations against him ‘crazy, stupid’
After more than a week of maintaining silence on the divorce suit filed against him by his wife – reported on August 29 by TheCable – founder of Believers Love World Ministry, Pastor Christian Oyakhilome, has finally addressed the allegations levelled against him.
Speaking on Sunday evening during the monthly global communion service of the church, he said the allegations were “crazy” and “stupid”.
Oyakhilome, who appeared visibly disturbed during his first few minutes on stage, acknowledged that divorce is unbiblical but suggested he could consider the option should his wife insist on it.
He criticised the media for prying into his private life and urged members of his church to pray for his estranged wife.
He recalled that Jesus passed through similar travails and eventually overcame. He said that although so many people were making mockery of him, he would remain steadfast and not lose focus.
“I heard that some media houses – especially in Nigeria – are writing some things against me. All sorts of frivolous charges, that’s crazy,” he said.
“You have to understand something about a man of God. A man of God is not just someone who worships God or preaches God. A man of God is handpicked by God, set on course by God. If you study the scriptures, you will not find one man of God go against God, sinning against God.
“The only things you might find will be a man of God, maybe in two different kinds of ways. Moses, for example; when he struck the rock twice, [he] was provoked by the anger of the people. [It was] not because he wanted to do something against the Lord. No man of God does something against the Lord.
“Are you hearing me? A man of God is set on a course; there is a type of life that he is given. Then you have a young man, a young prophet; he wasn’t named; he was deceived by another man of God and so he went in a direction that God said ‘don’t go’.
“That is the only kind of thing you find about a man of God when he misses the message of God or he acts beyond what God said. But a man of God settles himself in the fight against the world… like those writing those stupid things about me, that I did this and I did that.
“You don’t know who a man of God is. I don’t go in that direction. I wasn’t accused of the things you said, nor did I commit those stupid things that you said and I don’t need to go into that level in such discussions. Jesus Christ was accused by many – a lot of frivolous charges. There will always be those who would like for it to be true. But you know, in spite of the accusations against Jesus, It didn’t change who he was. It didn’t change him.
“There are preachers and there are men of God. I am not a preacher; I am a man of God and I go in the way I’m asked to go. It may cause some troubles with individuals but that’s not because I have done something wrong and when it comes to Reverend Anita, what I will say to you is ‘pray for her’.
“Don’t act like those people. If you are married to a man of God, it doesn’t make you automatically mature. You can make mistakes; you can do something that is wrong. But some people expect the wife of a minister to definitely be at the level of that minister and so they may be looked upon and the expectation may be like that, but it’s a positional thing.
“If a man of God is married, it doesn’t automatically mean that the wife of a man of God is therefore a woman of God. That’s not the way it is in the Bible. That’s why you don’t really find the wives of men of God mentioned in the Bible. How many of them? Who was Peter’s wife, did you ever know her name? You never find that out. Who was John’s wife? Did you ever read the name? What about all the other Apostles? How many of their names are written in the Bible. You never find their names.”
At this point, one of the female pastors sought to know why the names of wives of the men of God were not found in the Bible. Oyakhilome’s response was that she should ask God whenever she finds him.
“Why? You ask God when you find him. Ask God when you find him,” he exclaimed.
“So, they are little things; don’t try to make something big out of them. So when journeying, doing the things that God called us to do, Christians should not have a divorce; it shouldn’t be but you see, that doesn’t mean a Christian may not take the step.
“They may do it but [they] have to make things right and we shouldn’t take one another to court. But when it happens, not that we don’t just want to go, it means someone is taking us there. That’s a problem, but be wise and stay focused in the word of God and don’t let those who want to feast on things like this, including Christians…
“There are Christians who like things like this; they want to make something big out of this: ‘Yeah, yeah, yeah, we said it’. You said what? Judge nothing before the time. Be wise. Glory to God.
“So we are not working in sin and living in sin and hoping that we can mix sin and righteousness together. We are the manifestation of his righteousness. We walk in that light only, and that’s the way it’s gonna be.”
In April, Anita Oyakhilome filed for divorce at Central Family Court, High Holborn, London, UK, citing her husband’s “unreasonable behaviour” and inappropriate relationships with members of staff, a euphemism for “adultery”.
The charismatic pastor always denied the charges. He has never hidden his opposition to divorce, and it emerged last week that he intends to engage the services of reputable family lawyers to launch his defence.
pastor pls try and make peace with your wife cos the Bible strongly condemned it. God will continue to strengthened u for his kingdom and victory over all the battle
It is a pity that this is happening. I want to disagree with our Dear Pastor Cris because he was the one who made his Wife his Vice over all others who were her Senior in the Ministry. So he is to blame when he was trying to make the Ministry a family affair so as the protect the wealth not knowing that situations can change. So many things Have gone wrong my dear Pastor and I will suggest we seek God’s face for divine way out rather than trying to justify your actions. Only God knows the truth and at this point, it is really difficult to believe what either side blow out to the public. The heart of a man is very deep and no other person can know it. My people, pls let us pray for this is a missile from the pit of hell. I personally have my reservation against the Pastor here and his style of ministry, however, we need to pray for him for the sake of innocent millions attached to the ministry so that satan will not use this as opportunity to frustrate them to destruction. Olagunju
I concur with Olagunju. The condemns any Christian who hastily moves against a fellow Christian- Worst is any man who speaks against a Man Of God.
May the Lord step into this case IJN!
I do not see anything in ti,the two people, CHRIS OYAKHILOME & ANITA OYAKHILOME have come a very long way, so, they should be able to settle themselves, rather than washing their dirty linen in the public. May the LORD take complete control, in JESUS` name, amen.
Dearest Pastor, Reverend and God’s Own General, it is well with you Sir, the darker the night the brighter your light will shine. Worry not for you have overcome already. You are lifted higher. ?…says the Lord to you.
What ever happens Pastor, we love you and God Loves you too. This is just a passing phase and I am sure it would be phased out. We love your family. Bless you.
I have no right to say any thing,but I ask God In thy name of his son Jesus christ and I decree by the blood of Jesus let there be peace in this home. AMEN
One thing We all should understand is that There is no PERFEC MAN nEither is there a PERFECT CHURCH but I can give up my life to the truth that THERE IS A PERFECT GOD. So how can an imperfect person or church becomes perfect in reirhteousness it takes only the grace of GOD……..
In respqonse to the female pastor’s inquiry on why men of God’s wives are not mentioned in the new testament, the answer can be found in Apostle’s Paul words in 1 Tim. 2:11, 12; 1 Cor. 14:33-35,” Let a woman learn in silence with full submissiveness. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man, but she is to remain silent.”
”33 For God is a God not of disorder but of peace.
As in all the congregations of the holy ones, 34 let the women keep silent in the congregations, for it is not permitted for them to speak. Rather, let them be in subjection, as the Law also says. 35 If they want to learn something, let them ask their husbands at home, for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the congregation.”
Sadly, most men of God chose to ignore this admonition from the scripture and suffer the consequences. The church as an institution should never be a family affair. It was absolutely wrong of Pastor Chris to have transferred church authority to his wife by making her the vice president In death, the wife naturally would have succeeded him and become the head of the church. No ministry survives such a succession. It is clearly against the scripture.
I pity all of you saying things against him, has God told you anything? God have mercy on you all Amen.
people, please be careful of what you read in the media and refrain from judging because they might either add or subtract from the main story. paragraph 3 of this news is absolutely false. I was at the meeting and I heard what he said first hand, he said nothing about him considering the option of divorce,he said its wrong for Christians to go for divorce or even sue each other to court and this as been his teaching for years. he was also not looking disturb as they said at the beginning that they were getting ready to go for an healing service at the Healing school and that’s what he was preparing for.
Since d bible is translated to English we all can claim 2 know it well. If only u can listen 2 Pst Chris’ ministration with an open mind u wil know he is ‘A man sent from God’ and u will @ ‘Maintain a perfect heart’ by refraining from criticizing him. PRAY 4 HIM AND HIS WIFE.
Thumbs up 4 pastor Chris.. stand strong my man of God.. nothing do u
I PRAY FOR PEACE AND RECONCILIATION IN THE FAMILY OF PASTOR CHRIS AND ANITA OYAKHILOME.
Sigh of relief! Men of God should be prayed for because the odds against them are numerous. Ride on Pst Chris!
to my dear pastor its now time to fight a fight of faith that this all comes to an end and no-matter what happens be strong in the lord and endure hardship as a soldier of Christ.