TheCable

If your ex keeps clicking away at every Internet business of yours or s/he keeps invading your cyber space, s/he is still into you.

LinkedIn. One not so flattering feature about this social network is the ability to see who has viewed your profile, in other words, who has stalked you recently. The people found in this category range from prospective employees to boyfriends. In this case, your ex as well. If he is found in this list, he obviously is checking to see your progress so far after the break up, which could swing in a good way if we stick to the positives meaning he is still caring enough to see you’re faring well in your career.

Twitter. This one is uncommon except you are on the lookout as well yourself. Normally how this works is that if you follow both yourselves on Twitter and you didn’t do the dreaded [unfollow] after a break up, it is an open ground for him or her to still know what is going on in your life and in your head. To take it further, he or she begins to follow your followers, seeing as a tweet of you mentioning them scrolled past on his or her timeline. To make it even more extreme would be if he or her starts chatting up this person.

Instagram. This is the most commonly used network for exes. Even memes have been created to buttress this point. If he likes your pictures minutes just after you put it up, he/she is trying to send a message that he/she is still into you.

Facebook. Comments, likes, tags are all indication interest is still there. No it isn’t just random, no one would dedicate such time and effort into making sure they get noticed if it wasn’t for an ulterior motive.

Snap Chat. This is a newer form of social media. It involves a pictorial update of moods. Exes use this to indirectly send messages all the time.

Personal Blog. Blogs came into fashion the moment it made its grand entry into social media. People were glad for the new innovation of technologically jotting down your thoughts in your diary. Difference unlike the traditional method of an actual book with pages is that this gets to be accessed by all including your ex, should s/he find their way there, seizing the opportunity to leave random comments or puns and metaphors. Get the message.

Text Messages. This is as traditional as it gets. If s/he texts you on a regular to keep you abreast of the activities going on daily in their lives, they still want you in it obviously.

A lot of you know this already but are seeking validation as to if this is an indication of interest and should you succumb or oblige to it. Yes it is a sign they want you back and if you think things can be worked out, then why not? If not, you hold the key to stopping this. So which button would you be pressing?